A Friend – Part 2

Christ is the truest friend of all. This deeper, unwavering kind of friendship finds its perfect fulfilment in Jesus Christ. He is not just a Saviour and Lord, but also the most faithful and compassionate friend anyone could ever have.

He said: “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13). And He didn’t just speak these words, He lived them. He laid down His life on the cross, not merely for the righteous but for sinners, outcasts, and those who had nothing to offer in return (Rom. 5:8). He is the friend of the weary, the comforter of the brokenhearted, the companion of the lonely, and the rescuer of the lost. While human friends may sometimes fail, forget, or forsake, Christ remains, always present, always faithful.

When others flee in your hour of need, He stays. When the world judges or abandons, He forgives and draws near. When your strength fails, He carries you. When you are unloved, He loves you perfectly. He is not just a friend who sticks closer than a brother; He is the Friend who does so with divine love, unshakable loyalty, and eternal grace.

A man who wants friends must show himself friendly, building bonds through kindness and hospitality. Yet even the best human friendships can falter. But in Jesus Christ, we have the truest Friend, One who never leaves us, who bore our burdens, and who walks with us through every joy and sorrow. He is the Friend who sticks closer than a brother, now and forever.

A Friend – Part 1

Friendship is not something that exists by default; it must be cultivated. A person who desires to have and keep friends must invest in those relationships through kindness, generosity, loyalty, and mutual care. In biblical times, maintaining friendship often included acts of hospitality, such as sharing meals, offering comfort, and celebrating life’s blessings together. Friendship thrives where there is genuine affection and consistent effort. Take heed of the warning against friendship with the world, for it is strictly forbidden. Such alliances offer no lasting benefit, only trouble and spiritual loss (1Jn. 2:15-17).

But the proverb draws a contrast: while earthly friendships may sometimes depend on social customs or mutual benefit, there exists a different kind of friend, one whose loyalty goes deeper than even the bonds of blood. A friend who “sticks closer than a brother” is someone who does not leave in times of trouble, who remains when others walk away, and who loves without condition.

To be continued…

A Friend

‘A friend loves at all times.’ True friendship endures through every season of life, both joy and sorrow, prosperity and hardship. Such friendship is steadfast and unwavering, a rare and precious gift from God.

Ten examples of lasting friendship: Abraham, his faithful rescue of Lot shows a heart devoted to kin and friend alike (Gen. 14:14). Joseph forgave and cared for his brothers, demonstrating enduring love despite past betrayal (Gen. 45:5; 50:2). Moses interceded fervently for Israel, pleading on their behalf with God, embodying a friend who stands in the gap (Ex. 32:11-13; Deut. 9:18-29). Jonathan, his loyal love and covenant with David endured even through danger and death (1Sam. 20:33). Barzillai provided steadfast support to King David in his time of need (2Sam. 19:32). Ahikam stood as a protector and advocate for Jeremiah, preserving the prophet’s life (Jer. 26:24). Ebed-Melech risked his own life to rescue Jeremiah from the pit, a true friend in adversity (Jer. 38:7). Paul considered a brother and friend to many, expressing deep affection and care (Phil. 1:12, 20). Barnabas was known as the “son of encouragement” he supported and vouched for the early believers (Acts 9:27). Epaphroditus was a trusted companion who ministered alongside Paul, showing sacrificial friendship (Php. 2:26).

‘A brother is born for adversity.’ A friend loves in adversity or prosperity, and a brother is born to support and comfort a brother in distress.