Proverbs 18:23 The poor uses intreaties; but the rich answers roughly. 

This proverb paints a stark picture of the social dynamic between the poor and the rich. The poor, often in need and lacking power or resources, must approach others humbly and respectfully, using “intreaties,” or earnest pleas. Their speech is softened by necessity, marked by politeness, dependence, and sometimes desperation. They are often forced to beg for help, favour, or even justice.

In contrast, the rich, accustomed to comfort, power, and influence, may respond with harshness or dismissiveness. Their answers are often abrupt, prideful, or lacking in compassion. Because they do not feel the pressure of need, they may lack empathy for those who do. Wealth can breed arrogance and insensitivity if not tempered by humility and a fear of God.

This verse is not merely a comment on social behaviour; it is a subtle moral warning. It highlights the injustice that often arises when those with power fail to listen with compassion. It reminds the reader of the importance of humility and kindness, especially for those who have the means to help others.

The poor often plead with gentle words, seeking mercy and help, while the rich may respond with cold indifference or harsh speech. This contrast exposes not just the imbalance of wealth, but also the imbalance of heart. Scripture urges the rich not to trust in their riches, but to show generosity and mercy, for God hears the cries of the poor, and He will judge those who oppress them with hard words or hardened hearts (Proverbs 22:2; James 2:5-6).