Proverbs 18:17 He that is first in his own cause seems just; but his neighbour comes and searches him. 

The one who speaks first in a dispute may appear to be right, simply because no other perspective has been heard. But as soon as the other side is presented, and careful questioning takes place, the truth becomes clearer. This verse warns against taking one-sided stories at face value and reminds judges, listeners, or counsellors to hear both parties.

Examples of answering first: Saul justified his disobedience before Samuel arrived, but was later exposed (1Sam. 15:13, 26). Ziba accused Mephibosheth before David, gaining favour (2Sam. 16:1-3), but Mephibosheth’s later explanation revealed a deeper truth (2Sam. 19:24-30). Tertullus flattered and falsely accused Paul before Felix (Acts 24:5-9), but Paul’s calm defence dismantled his claims (Acts 24:10-21).

Exercise discernment. Be slow to judge until all voices have been heard.