Proverbs 11:12-13 He that is void of wisdom despises his neighbour: but a man of understanding holds his peace. A talebearer reveals secrets: but he that is of a faithful spirit conceals the matter.
‘Despises his neighbour: but a man of understanding holds his peace.’ He reproaches his neighbour, but a man of understanding holds his peace and keeps his mouth. Even a fool is considered a wise one if he knows when and where to speak, and a so-called wise man is considered a fool if he does not know when to hold his tongue (17:28).
Five sins that will damn the soul: Refusing to live at peace with neighbours (Ps. 55:20). Not keeping one’s word (cp. Ps. 15:4; 2Tim. 3:3). Lying (Ps. 55:21; cp. Rev. 21:8). Plotting the destruction of those who would live in peace. Deceiving and destroying with one’s tongue (cp. Jas. 3:1-18).
‘Talebearer’ [Hebrew: halak and rakiyl], a walking busybody; a peddler in scandal (cp. Lev. 19:16; Jas. 1:26). He reveals whatever is confided to him. He will even reveal his own secrets rather than have nothing to say. Doeg is a good example of talebearing (1Sam. 21:7; 22:9-10; Ps. 52:2).
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