Proverbs 19:6 Many will intreat the favour of the prince: and every man is a friend to him that gives gifts.
This proverb offers a realistic observation of human behaviour, particularly concerning social dynamics and the allure of wealth or power. It reveals how people are often motivated by self-interest in their relationships and interactions.
The phrase “Many will intreat the favour of the prince” refers to how those in power or of high status frequently receive special attention. People flock to them, seeking their goodwill, influence, or blessing, hoping to gain something in return, an opportunity, a position, or a material advantage. These entreaties are rarely rooted in genuine friendship or loyalty, but are often motivated by what the person hopes to gain.
The second part, “Every man is a friend to him that gives gifts,” further illustrates the theme: generosity attracts attention and apparent friendship, but often from those whose hearts are not truly committed. Many are eager to befriend the generous man, but their friendship may be shallow, lasting only as long as the benefits continue.
This proverb doesn’t condemn generosity or honour, but it warns us to discern the motives of those around us. Not everyone who shows affection or interest is a true friend. Likewise, it reminds us not to base our relationships on what we can gain, but rather on sincerity, mutual respect, and godly character.
To be continued…
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