Proverbs 19:11 The discretion of a man defers his anger; and it is his glory to pass over a transgression.
This proverb highlights two admirable traits of a wise and godly person: [1] A sensible man prolongs patience, not anger. A discerning person exercises self-control and delays his anger rather than allowing his emotions to flare up quickly. Quick-tempered reactions often lead to strife and regrettable actions. Wisdom chooses to consider the situation carefully, weigh motives, and respond appropriately rather than impulsively. Patience is not weakness; it is strength under control (Jas. 1:19-20). [2] He passes over transgressions and does not expose or shame others. Instead of magnifying someone’s offence or seeking retaliation, a wise person forgives and chooses not to publicly expose others’ faults (compare 1Cor. 13:4-7, “love covers all things”). This builds peace and relationships rather than division and bitterness. Forgiving others reflects God’s own gracious nature.
True strength is shown not in anger but in self-restraint and forgiveness. Patience and grace restore relationships and reflect God’s own character. It is more glorious to cover an offence than to expose it unnecessarily or retaliate. A forgiving heart fosters peace and avoids cycles of revenge. To be continued…
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