Proverbs 19:18 Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.
Immediate vs. long-term consequences: A child may resent or cry at discipline, but the long-term benefit is wisdom and self-control. Failing to correct a child now risks future grief, frustration, and even ruin for both child and parent (29:15).
Discipline as an act of love: Loving parents act in the child’s best interest, even when it is difficult. As Proverbs 13:24 says, “He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.” God Himself disciplines His children out of love (Heb. 12:6).
Biblical and practical examples: King David and Solomon: David disciplined Solomon early, which contributed to Solomon’s wisdom (1Kings 3). Elijah and young prophets: Early correction in spiritual matters shaped the integrity of God’s servants (1Kings 19). Teaching a child honesty, responsibility, and respect early prevents rebellion and destructive habits later. Consistent consequences for misbehaviour (age-appropriate) form character more effectively than permissive indulgence.
Discipline early: Correct children before harmful habits become entrenched. Discipline wisely, not harshly: Use methods that teach, guide, and restore, not humiliate or crush. Endure temporary discomfort: A child’s tears at correction are far less costly than lifelong suffering caused by unrestrained folly.
Trust in God’s design: God created correction as a path to growth, wisdom, and life (3:11-12).
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