Proverbs 20:5 Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water; but a man of understanding will draw it out.
Human thoughts, motives, and plans are often hidden, complex, and difficult to discern. Like water in a deep well, the true intent of a person’s heart is not immediately visible. People may speak words that mask their real purposes, or they may be unaware of their own deeper motives.
Scripture warns that the heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? (Jer. 17:9) And that all the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but the LORD weighs the spirits (16:2).
‘But a man of understanding will draw it out.’ A person with wisdom, discernment, and patience can uncover hidden motives, plans, or intentions. This requires observation: noticing words, actions, and patterns; discernment: interpreting behaviour in light of experience and truth; and patience: gently questioning or guiding conversation to reveal inner thoughts.
Like drawing water from a deep well, understanding requires effort and skill. Leaders, counsellors, and teachers benefit from understanding motives before reacting. Friends and family can avoid conflict by seeking to understand rather than assume. Spiritual discernment allows one to address hidden sin or needs effectively.
Avoid snap judgments; seek to understand before acting. Exercise patience and discernment in relationships. Recognise that God knows the intent of others when we ask Him for guidance, and His counsel can guide our understanding (1Sam. 16:7). Hidden motives are like deep water; not everyone can reach them, but the discerning person, guided by wisdom and understanding, can uncover the truth and act wisely.
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