Train up a Child – Part 1

Proverbs 22:6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. 

This verse emphasises the powerful and lasting influence of early training. The phrase “train up” conveys dedication, guidance, and intentional shaping. It is not passive teaching, but active formation – like setting a foundation that will support the rest of a person’s life.

‘Train up’ – intentional formation; to “train up” a child means more than instruction; it includes guiding behaviour through consistent discipline. Modelling the values you want them to learn. Repeating and reinforcing the truth until it becomes part of them.

The idea of “hedging in” suggests creating boundaries that protect and direct the child. These boundaries are not meant to restrict unnecessarily, but to keep them on a safe and wise path until they are mature enough to walk independently.

‘In the way’ – at the mouth of his path. The phrase can be understood as “at the beginning of his path” – the critical early stage of life when direction is set.

At this “opening of the way,” the responsibility is to give clear, thorough instruction: Teach not only what is right, but how to live it out daily. Show them how to make decisions, handle challenges, and avoid danger. Help them understand consequences and develop discernment.

It involves “drilling” truth – not harshly, but consistently – until it becomes natural. What is repeated in childhood becomes instinct in adulthood.

To be continued…